No. 10 - Don't date problem women
This should be pretty straight forward but there are a lot of people out there that still try to go after the women they really shouldn't be going after. These type of women include: ones with boyfriends, women they work with, or women who for whatever reason aren't the right choice.
You may have a bunch of excuses why you want to go after this women but its still a bad idea. It would be better to flirt and tease with these women. Then in the future if the situation is different then this women will be even more attracted to you because of the flirting and teasing in the first place and she will follow you around like a puppy.
No. 9 - Know how to handle groups of women
There are many ways to approach a group of women such as magic, humor, and other great techniques that may charm a group of women. However its usually one women in that group that you are after.
It is sometimes better to go for that women when she is on her own. However if you do go up to this girl and talk with her when she is with her friends they usually go about their business and don't care. Get her contact information and that's all you need.
No. 8 - Meeting 'fragile' women
After time you may run into a women that is 'fragile'. You will have to deal with this type of women when you give her a hard time she will pout about it. For this type of women you can say such things as "You're cute when you're mad". This usually lightenings things up and makes things go a little easier.
No. 7 - Stop fearing rejection
The problem with most guys is that they imagine the times when they approach a women and don't wind up with a date as being "cold, hard, shut-down" style rejections. As long as you don't have no class or tact this isn't going to happen all the time.
Why not have the objective to make the woman you meet smile. You can find out what kind of women she is and if she is interested before asking her for her number. You can maybe see first if you can make her smile.
No. 6 - Know when you've gone too far
One thing you need to learn and watch is being cocky and funny and not going to far with it. Some guys get a little too cocky and forget to be funny. You need to make sure you don't come off as arrogant and hurting a woman's feelings. You can say something like "Lighten up. What, don't you have a sense of humor?" By saying something like this she knows you were making a joke.
No. 5 - Don't come on too strong
Don't try to be too sweet to soon. You do not want to come off as needy. That is not attractive. It is OK to be a little bit sweet but just don't over do it. You can give a girl flowers after seeing her for a few weeks but you shouldn't get her a dozen roses on the first date. Get it?
No. 4 - Know how to handle tricky situations
Lets say you are in that situation where you are dating a girl casually and she says "I love you." Most guys have no clue what to say in this type of situation. You can respond by saying something like: "I know", "You should", "I don't blame you," and "Well, I would if I were you". I would be careful though if she thinks you are getting married soon you might want to consider acting accordingly.
No. 3 - Stop being a Wussy
It is pretty obvious that beautiful women are not attracted to men who act like Wussies. The sad part about this though is that most guys main strategy with women is to attract Wussy to get them. Don't be a wussy yourself.
No. 2 - Get out of your comfort zone
It is important to try out new things. Sometimes these new things may be out of your comfort zone but they are different and women are sometimes attracted to those things that are different.
Trying to have a good balance between cocky and funny is one of those things you may not be comfortable with but you should try it out. Women don't like men that pussyfoot around looking for approval. This type of thing is a huge turn-off to women. So just try something new and stick with it.
No. 1 - Create positive "tension"
You need to dial up the tension before you can release the tension inside. So if the women say something like "I like you," tell her "I like me too." By doing this you are being "nice" and you are dialing up the tension between you two. It is funny and it is making things build between you two.
It is surprising to a woman when she hears this kind of thing, and it's incredible when it's done in a funny way. So try it out and when you get to the point where you cannot build any more tension then release that tension in a good way.
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