Monday, September 7, 2009

5 Female-Friendly Positions

FEMALE-FRIENDLY POSITIONS

1. The missionary

The first position is the missionary. It may sound boring and unadventurous, but this position allows your your pubic mound to rub against her clitoris while you are inside her, which will help trigger an orgasm. Putting a pillow under her bottom will also help get the right angle to hit her G-spot. She can also grind against you and move her hips to greet you. This position is a standard one and you almost can’t go wrong with it, but the most important factor in good sex is communication; if it’s not working, she needs to tell you it’s not working. Experiment!

2. Doggy style

This position is definitely female friendly when done properly, though there are keys for its success. Many men reach around to stimulate the clitoris with their fingers, which is great, but for some reason -- probably due to being distracted with our own pleasure -- we stop. This is a big mistake, because when you stop halfway, you effectively halt her progress. She probably won’t say anything since it is still very enjoyable; its just not orgasmic.

It can be easier if she stimulates her clitoris, though this can be a bit unsteady since she will only have one arm to hold herself up. Talk to her and figure out what suits her best: you working her clitoris or her. For the less well-endowed among you, doggy style allows for deeper penetration, which can be more satisfying for her. It can also make you orgasm faster, so make sure to slow it down or take a quick break when you need to -- and be sure to keep that hand in place.

3. Her on top No.1

Lie on your back while she straddles you. This position allows her to control the angle, speed and pressure of penetration, while giving her the leverage to stimulate her clitoris by rubbing it on your pubic bone and lower abdomen. It is important for the success of this position that the area of your body that her clitoris is rubbing on is slightly wet, which makes the motion smooth and slippery. She may not know this fact, so you may need to take the initiative and wet it with saliva or lube.

4. Her on top No. 2

She will need to be comfortable pleasuring herself to be able to get off with this one. You lie down on the bed or floor while she faces your feet and straddles you. This position gives great G-spot stimulation for her and a great view for you. She can pleasure her own clitoris (which is a benefit because she can do it just how she likes) and create her own rhythm with her hips.

If she is uncomfortable with her body she may not be too keen on this position as her butt will be on full display, but give her a ”lights-out” option if she needs it; she might just find this position tinkles her bells.

5. On a chair

A sturdy armless chair (like a dining chair) provides a great base for a couple of different girl-on-top scenarios. It’s almost impossible for her clitoris not to rub on your stomach and pubic area if she is facing you, and she can manually stimulate her clitoris if she is facing your feet. The angles are excellent -- she can go as deep as she needs to and set the pace as she goes.

ARTICLES FROM : http://www.askmen.com

By David Strovny

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