Get Your Woman To Initiate Sex

Whether you've been with your current girlfriend for a few months or a few years, chances are that you're responsible for initiating sex. While you don't necessarily mind being the one to make the first move, you probably wish that she'd jump you every once in a while. In fact, you can't understand why she doesn't let you know when she's in the mood, as you'd probably be happy to comply.

There are many reasons women don't initiate sex, some of which you may have figured out by now, and others which may come as a surprise. Below are the main reasons and tips on what you can do to undo this foul reasoning of hers, without her even being aware of it. Soon you'll be able to get her to initiate sex -- at least half the time.

They don't have to

Let's face it: The main reason women don't initiate sex is because they don't have to. They know that you'll let them know when you want it, at which point they can decide whether or not they want to comply. After all, if you're always the one asking for it, why would she even bother?

What to do: This is going to require some self-control on your part, but if you can pull it off, it's well worth it. If you usually have sex a couple of times a week, chances are that she expects that amount of intercourse. So, for a period of one week, tease her subtly by giving her long, passionate kisses, sensual massages or caressing her softly while you're watching a movie, and when you feel that she's getting turned on, slowly pull away and continue whatever you were doing in a non-sexual manner. A week of this will drive her up the wall, and she will be all over you by Saturday night.

She thinks it's taboo

You can thank society and her mother for this one. Some women have been raised to believe that a woman who initiates sex is invariably a slut. For a lady, such behavior is strictly taboo. She has been conditioned to believe that if she initiates sex, her boyfriend will think that she's a whore, so she never does. Unfortunately, you're dating a prude.

What to do: You have to eradicate this way of thinking from her mind altogether. How? Simple: One day, when you're out having a drink or lounging around the apartment, ask her what turns her on. After she gives you her response, tell her that what would really turn you on is if she initiated sex every so often. If she says that she couldn't, tell her that since you're a couple, it's really OK to do so.

Give her a little time to think about her next move, and keep your eyes open for it, as it could be so subtle at first that you may not even pick up on it. Be sure to give her lots of positive reinforcement for every move she makes. Pretty soon, she'll realize that her mother was wrong.

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By Melissa LaRicca